Mommy Haven



Is it possible for me to stop creating new blogs every time I open a new chapter of my life? If you look back and see how many blogs I have created in the past, you'll realize how much has happened in my life. There might be some over reactions to silly things, but back then it was something that I was going through and writing it in here help me out. This new chapter of my life is called Mommy Haven. It's a place that will allow me to vent about everything that involves about being a mom and how a lot of the times I feel overwhelmed with the decisions that I am making for myself and my son. I feel I needed this because I have forgotten how to heal myself mentally. I want to allow myself time and space in my busy life to write. 



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